NABAL — The Foolish Man Who Refused to Share

Bible Setting: 1 Samuel 25

Nabal lived in the days of King Saul and David. He was a very wealthy man with lots of sheep, land, and servants. But even though he had plenty, Nabal was known for something else: he was selfish, rude, and unkind. In fact, his name even meant “fool.”

One day, David and his men were living in the wilderness. They had protected Nabal’s shepherds and flocks from danger for months. When it came time for shearing—usually a time of feasting—David kindly sent a message asking if Nabal could share some food.

Instead of being thankful, Nabal insulted David. He shouted mean things, refused to help, and acted like he didn’t owe anyone anything. His pride nearly led to disaster. David became angry and marched toward Nabal’s house ready to fight.

But God stepped in through Nabal’s wise and kind wife, Abigail. She brought food, apologized, and stopped the situation from turning into a terrible battle. Later, Nabal’s selfishness caught up with him, and he died suddenly. David thanked God for keeping him from acting in anger.

Nabal teaches kids that selfishness and rudeness hurt everyone, including ourselves. When we refuse to share, when we speak harshly, or when we act like we deserve everything, we push others away and miss the blessings that come with kindness.

In The Good Fight card game, Nabal represents foolishness and stubborn pride. When kids face his card, they learn that generosity, gratitude, and gentle words are always stronger—and wiser—than selfishness.

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